Girls'
secrets aired in Egypt
By
Caroline Hawley in Cairo
A new
Egyptian film about a teenager who gets pregnant has been
creating a stir in Cairo.
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It's
the first time a film has ever dealt with a subject
like this

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In the
film, a 16-year old Egyptian girl, Yasmin, gives birth alone
in the bathroom, after managing to hide her pregnancy from
both her family and friends.
When
she is discovered, her veiled mother accuses her of shaming
the family and a religious doctor circumcises her as she lies
unconscious in hospital.
Her
father briefly considers unplugging the tiny baby's incubator.
Pre-marital
sex, forbidden in Islam, is a major taboo in Egypt and even by
just bringing it to the Egyptian screen without condemning it
entirely, the film, Girls' Secrets, has been hailed as
ground-breaking.
"It's
the first time a film has ever dealt with a subject like
this," said one enthusiastic viewer. "It's usually
forbidden even to talk about such things."
True
story
The
film was inspired by the true story of a girl who was badly
beaten by members of her family for losing her virginity
before she was married.
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I've
seen operations to restore girls' hymens and I've
seen abortions. They're both illegal but they both
happen every day in our hospitals

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Film
Director Magdy Ahmed Ali
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"Society
doesn't want to admit it but there is a lot of sex before
marriage," says t
he
director, Magdy Ahmed Ali, who used to work as a hospital
pharmacist.
"I've
seen operations to restore girls' hymens and I've seen
abortions. They're both illegal but they both happen every day
in our hospitals. "
But
Ali uses the story of Yasmin - and the consequences of her
snatched encounter with the boy next door - to make a much
wider point about the social and cultural malaise that Egypt
is undergoing, torn as it is between religious conservatism
and more liberal, Western influences now entering Egypt
through satellite television and the internet.
"The
middle class is undergoing an identity crisis," he says.
"We
don't know if we're Islamic or Western and these
contradictions are a disaster for the young generation."
Researchers
say it's impossible to know how much sex before marriage
really takes place because it remains such a taboo.
"I
don't think it's very common because of the religious
restrictions for both Muslims and Christians," says Nehad
Abu Qumsan of the Egyptian Centre for Women's Rights.
"But
when it happens it's an absolute disaster for the woman, who
is always the one that is blamed. Sometimes the family kill
the woman for dishonouring them."
Sex
dilemma
But
with young Egyptians having to put off marriage as they
struggle to find the money to pay for it, sex has become a
major dilemma for many couples.
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I'd
like my film to play a part in changing things but
in a society like ours I'm not very optimistic

Film
Director Magdy Ahmed Ali
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Some
now resort to controversial, unofficial "'urfi"
marriages, in which they sign documents declaring
themselves
man and wife without telling their families.
Many
clerics are against a device that is essentially a cover for
pre-marital sex.
But
the phenomenon is believed to be spreading.
"It's
young people's way of trying to legitimising what is socially
illegitimate,"
says social researcher Sahar Tawila.
Girls'
Secrets has drawn attention to the conflicts many young
Egyptians
are now facing
"We
need to try to solve their problems but we have to acknowledge
that they exist first," says the
director,
Magdy Ahmed Ali.
"I'd
like my film to play a part in changing things but in a
society like ours I'm not very optimistic."