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Lenten retreat turns to tragedy

By Michael Kolber -- Bee Staff Writer
Published 2:15 a.m. PST Monday, March 31, 2003

As their three vans hurtled toward Barstow early Saturday morning, about 40 Northern California teens and young adults were looking forward to their annual Lenten retreat of prayer and rest.

What happened just before 3 a.m. left the group in spiritual need more than ever. One of the vans swerved off Interstate 15 and rolled over, killing five young women just 20 minutes from their destination, the St. Anthony Monastery, the country's only Coptic Orthodox monastery.

Raymond Souweha, 23, of San Jose said Sunday he was the only one of the van's 14 occupants to survive without serious injury, only a bruised and cut face that required stitches.

"All of us were screaming and yelling," Souweha said. "It's very, very tragic."

Souweha said Peter Demian, 27, of Mountain View, had been driving the entire seven-hour trip, although he had taken breaks. Just before the crash, Demian dozed off. Many of his passengers were already asleep, but one realized the van was sliding from its lane and called out Demian's name.

Startled awake, Demian jerked the steering wheel, but his van swerved out of control, onto the shoulder and down a gradual slope, Souweha said.

The California Highway Patrol said 11 of the van's 14 occupants were not wearing seat belts and were ejected.

Dalal Hannalla, 25, and her sister Iman Hannalla, 24, both of Salinas, died at the scene. Their brother had planned to attend the retreat, but couldn't make it at the last minute, said the Rev. Anthony Hanna of Concord's Coptic Orthodox church. Dalal Hannalla was a recent graduate of the University of California, Davis, and Iman Hannalla was a student at California State University, Sacramento.

Mary Demian, 21, of Fair Oaks, a mechanical engineering major at UC Davis, died at Arrowhead Regional Medical Center in San Bernardino County.

Simone Botros, 21, of Monterey, and Christine Youssef, 17, of San Jose, also died at the scene.

Sunday afternoon at Arrowhead Regional, Victoria Brown, 20, of Redding, was in stable condition; Lucy Saeed, 21, of Antelope, was in critical condition; and Nancy Salam, 25, of San Jose, was in serious condition. Hospital staff did not release the name or condition of a 16-year-old girl being treated.

The driver, Peter Demian, was in critical condition with a major head injury at Loma Linda University Medical Center. The other passengers had been treated and released at area hospitals.

In Sacramento and San Francisco, Coptic Orthodox churches were shaken as the news reverberated through the tight-knit Egyptian community.

The travelers were members of a half dozen Northern California Coptic churches and gathered at a church in Hayward to load the vans.

Hanna traveled to Barstow Saturday to assist the victims.

"Everybody knows everybody. It's like a great big family," Hanna said. "It's a great loss for our church."

Joe Hanna, 23, of Danville, said the remaining group continued on to the monastery.

"The high spiritual level that the monastery offers was able to fill them with peace," said Joe Hanna. "They all know that this was from God."

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The Bee's Michael Kolber can be reached at (916) 478-2671 or mkolber@sacbee.com.

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  Posted on Tues, Apr 01, 2003  
Service today for three killed in desert crash

khowe@montereyherald.com

They were just five miles from the end of a trip they had made before, a religious pilgrimage to the Southern California desert.

But the crash of their van ended the trip and the lives of three young Monterey County women along with two others from Northern California's small Coptic Orthodox community.

Today, the Monterey congregation will mourn the deaths of Dalal and Iman Hanalla, sisters who lived in the Los Laureles area between Monterey and Salinas, and Monterey resident Simone Botros. Dalal Hanalla was 25, her sister a year younger. Botros was just 21.

The local women and two others were killed when the church van overturned early Saturday as it approached the St. Anthony Monastery in the Mojave Desert community of Yermo.

"It was like the Challenger accident. Ten minutes before they arrive, the accident happens," Farid Hanalla, father of Iman and Dalal, said Monday while he was making burial arrangements at San Carlos Cemetery.

Farid Hanalla and his wife, Mary, heard the horrible news by telephone from church members, as did Simone Botros' parents, Gamal and Jeannette.

"They were good girls. It is our culture," Hanalla said of his daughters, "very polite, very honest.

"I know they are in paradise now. That's why I have taken this shock like a man."

Their brother, Hany Hanalla, 21, a student at CSU-Sacramento, had planned to make the trip as well, "but God stepped in," his father said.

"He had a test that week. God wanted to leave me one."

The Hanalla sisters graduated from Monterey High School.

Dalal Hanalla recently graduated from UC-Davis and was to celebrate her engagement party this month, her father said. She worked for a brokerage firm in Sacramento and "always helped people," he said.

Iman Hanalla, also a student at CSU-Sacramento, was "the smile of the house," her father said. Both young women regularly made the annual religious retreat to St. Anthony's in the desert for a weekend of prayer and contemplation by young people in the Coptic Church.

Simone Botros was due to graduate from CSU-Monterey Bay next December, her mother said.

She had graduated from Seaside High School in 1998, then attended Monterey Peninsula College. Her brother, Antoine Botros of Monterey, was not on the trip.

Each of the three was born in Cairo, Egypt, and moved to the Central Coast because each had a parent teaching Arabic at the Defense Language Institute.

Hada Salib had known all three women since they were girls in her Sunday school class. All three were active in the newly formed St. Mark's Coptic Orthodox Church in Monterey, which started in July. Before they established their own congregation, they would attend services at other Coptic churches in the San Francisco Bay Area.

The young women were active in the Coptic youth group and were "very religious; they liked the monastery, liked the tradition, they were very sociable," Salib said.

Salib recalled Simone Botros as having "a very positive attitude."

"She liked everybody, and she drew you into a conversation whether you wanted to or not, a very good, very loving daughter and a caring person. Just an angel."

Salib said she was also hard-working and "very inquisitive," a child who would ask questions and demand answers about God and religion in Sunday school .

"I guess she knows all the reasons we don't know now."

Also killed in the accident were Christine Youssef, 17, of San Jose, who died at the scene, and Mary Demian, 21, of Fair Oaks, who succumbed en route to a hospital.

The van, driven by Peter Demian, 27, of San Jose -- no relation to Mary Demian -- was one of three in a convoy bound for the monastery, according to the California Highway Patrol. The driver suffered major head injuries and several other passengers sustained serious injuries.

The 2002 Ford 15-passenger van was northbound on Interstate 15 at 70 mph when it began to drift toward a vehicle in the next lane at a section of the freeway with a slight bend, CHP investigators reported.

The driver swerved several times while trying to straighten out, sending the van out of control, the highway patrol said. Officers reported that 11 of the 14 in the van were not wearing seat belts and were ejected onto the center divider.

The driver, Salib said, was a church deacon, "a very nice gentleman, very respectful."

The services are set for 3:30 p.m. at St. Angela's Catholic Church in Pacific Grove at 3:30 p.m.

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  Posted on Tue, Apr. 01, 2003  
 

Three women killed in accident
Monterey: Van crashes on church trip

khowe@montereyherald.com

They were just five miles from the end of a trip they had made before, a religious pilgrimage to the Southern California desert.

But the crash of their van ended the trip and the lives of three young Monterey County women along with two others from Northern California's small Coptic Orthodox community.

Today, the Monterey congregation will mourn the deaths of Dalal and Iman Hanalla, sisters who lived in the Los Laureles area between Monterey and Salinas, and Monterey resident Simone Botros. Dalal Hanalla was 25, her sister a year younger. Botros was just 21.

The local women and two others were killed when the church van overturned early Saturday as it approached the St. Anthony Monastery in the Mojave Desert community of Yermo.

"It was like the (space shuttle Columbia) accident. Ten minutes before they arrive, the accident happens," Farid Hanalla, father of Iman and Dalal, said Monday while he was making burial arrangements at San Carlos Cemetery.

Farid Hanalla and his wife, Mary, heard the news by telephone from church members, as did Simone Botros' parents, Gamal and Jeannette.

"They were good girls. It is our culture," Hanalla said of his daughters, "very polite, very honest.

"I know they are in paradise now. That's why I have taken this shock like a man."

Their brother, Hany Hanalla, 21, a student at CSU-Sacramento, had planned to make the trip as well, "but God stepped in," his father said.

"He had a test that week. God wanted to leave me one."

The Hanalla sisters graduated from Monterey High School.

Dalal Hanalla recently graduated from UC-Davis and was to celebrate her engagement party this month, her father said. She worked for a brokerage firm in Sacramento and "always helped people," he said.

Iman Hanalla, also a student at CSU-Sacramento, was "the smile of the house," her father said. Both young women regularly made the annual retreat to St. Anthony's in the desert for a weekend of prayer and contemplation by young people in the Coptic Church.

Simone Botros was due to graduate from CSU-Monterey Bay next December, her mother said.

She had graduated from Seaside High School in 1998, then attended Monterey Peninsula College. Her brother, Antoine Botros of Monterey, was not on the trip.

Each of the three was born in Cairo, Egypt, and moved to the Central Coast because each had a parent teaching Arabic at the Defense Language Institute.

Hada Salib had known all three women since they were girls in her Sunday school class. All three were active in the newly formed St. Mark's Coptic Orthodox Church in Monterey, which started in July. Before they established their own congregation, they would attend services at other Coptic churches in the San Francisco Bay Area.

The young women were active in the Coptic youth group and were "very religious; they liked the monastery, liked the tradition, they were very sociable," Salib said.

Salib recalled Simone Botros as having "a very positive attitude."

"She liked everybody, and she drew you into a conversation whether you wanted to or not, a very good, very loving daughter and a caring person. Just an angel."

Salib said she was also hard-working and "very inquisitive," a child who would ask questions and demand answers about God and religion in Sunday school.

"I guess she knows all the reasons we don't know now."

Also killed in the accident were Christine Youssef, 17, of San Jose, who died at the scene, and Mary Demian, 21, of Fair Oaks, who died en route to a hospital.

The van, driven by Peter Demian, 27, of San Jose -- no relation to Mary Demian -- was one of three in a convoy bound for the monastery, the California Highway Patrol said. The driver suffered major head injuries and several other passengers suffered serious injuries.

The 2002 Ford 15-passenger van was northbound on Interstate 15 at 70 mph when it began to drift toward a vehicle in the next lane at a section of the freeway with a slight bend, CHP investigators reported.

The driver swerved several times while trying to straighten out, sending the van out of control, the highway patrol said. Officers reported that 11 of the 14 in the van were not wearing seat belts and were ejected onto the center divider.

The driver, Salib said, was a church deacon, "a very nice gentleman, very respectful."

The services are set for 3:30 p.m. at St. Angela's Catholic Church in Pacific Grove at 3:30 p.m.


Kevin Howe can be reached at 646-4416.

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Posted on Sun, Mar. 30, 2003  
State news
 BARSTOW

5 killed when van overturns on Interstate

Five people on their way to a religious retreat died early Saturday when their van overturned on Interstate 15, authorities said.

Five others, including the driver, were seriously injured in the 2:55 a.m. crash north of Barstow, the California Highway Patrol reported.

Eleven of the 14 people inside the van were not wearing seat belts and were ejected, CHP said. The bodies were strewn from the center divider to the edge of the highway.

The van was one of three in a convoy carrying students and others to a monastery near Barstow.

The cause remained under investigation.

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  Posted on Mon, Mar. 31, 2003 story:PUB_DESC

Crash victim `an angel'
FAMILY GATHERS TO MOURN SAN JOSE GIRL KILLED ON RELIGIOUS OUTING


Mercury News

 

The Saturday expedition from Bay Area Coptic churches to a desert monastery in Barstow was supposed to be a chance for teens and college students to renew their faith in Egyptian Christian theology.

Instead, just 20 minutes from their destination, St. Anthony's sanctuary, their van spun out of control and overturned on Interstate 15 -- killing five passengers and injuring nine others.

On Sunday, dozens of friends and worshipers who are part of a close-knit circle of Egyptian immigrants gathered at the family home of 17-year-old Christine Yousef, who died in the predawn highway crash in Southern California.

``The best word for Christine is she was an angel,'' said her father, Maher Mankaryous. ``We believe this is not a death, because she's going to heaven. She's going to a better life.''

The 2:55 a.m. accident occurred on a stretch of highway known for fatalities. Most passengers weren't wearing seat belts when the driver, Peter Demian of Mountain View, tried to pass a big rig and turned too sharply to the left, ending up in the center divider. Demian then over-corrected on a right-hand turn, causing the 15-passenger Ford Econoline van to flip, flinging its occupants onto the asphalt, dirt and shrubs, California Highway Patrol officer Rob Roberts said Sunday.

Sisters Iman Hanalla, 24, of Davis and Dalal Hanalla, 25, of Sacramento also were killed in the crash, along with Simone Botros, 21, of Monterey and Mary Demian, 21, of Gold River. Nine others were hospitalized, undergoing multiple surgeries with injuries that threatened arms, legs and brain functions.

Among those injured are Peter Demian, 28; Ranya Botros, 20, of Sunnyvale and San Jose residents Nancy Salama, 25, and Raymond Souweah, 23.

Last year, 92 people died on the same stretch of highway. Saturday's accident brings this year's death toll to 25.

For years, the Bay Area network of Egyptian orthodox churches has sent youths to the Barstow monastery on all-night drives that allow them to arrive well before the early morning services.

But Sunday, at the San Jose apartment Christine shared with her parents and two sisters, Marina, 14, and Phoebe, 10, there was little dwelling on what could have been. The deeply religious family clung to the belief that God chose Christine as heaven-bound. And to comfort themselves, they accepted hugs and baked goods from a steady stream of visitors.

Stories about Christine

Her sisters bubbled with their favorite Christine stories -- how she insisted on taking school books with her on every family outing, her picky eating habits and her aversion to leftovers.

Christine, her family said, was driven and devoted to helping others. The Prospect High senior was a Sunday school teacher, an organist and a scholar. She learned English only three years ago but was an award-winning member of debate and oratory teams. She had been accepted to five universities and received some scholarships. Christine is praised as her church's most active youth leader -- drawing other kids into faith through religious puppet shows and hymns she translated from her native Arabic.

Christine's father brought his family to the South Bay in 1999 from Egypt. He left a job as an accounting professor at Zagzig University outside Cairo to pursue a better life for his family. In San Jose, he had to swap academia for a job as a cashier for a time.

Role model for siblings

Mankaryous, who works as a part-time instructor at Holy Names College in Oakland, was an inspiration for Christine. She, in turn, urged on her younger siblings. Marina said that without Christine, she would never have survived her first year in high school.

``She was a really outgoing person, and I'm really shy,'' Marina said. ``She'd always say, `You have to talk to people.' ''

At St. George Coptic Orthodox Church in Campbell, Christine worked closely with Peter Demian, who remains in a coma with a serious scalp injury at Loma Linda University Medical Center.

The Rev. Salib Girgis asked his Sunday morning congregation of about 180 families at the church to pray for all of the passengers and Peter -- a deacon, board member and popular youth leader known for his cautious driving.

Northern California is home to about 1,000 members of the Coptic community, with churches in the South Bay, Hayward and Monterey.

Abouna, as Girgis is called, has had a grueling weekend reassuring them. Shuttling between hospitals and the homes of the grieving families, he has struggled to get the message across that it was time for these young people to meet God. He's having a hard time fully accepting it himself.

``It's a really hard job, convincing them that this is not a bad thing,'' he said. ``It's not easy to lose five of your children together.''

Mercury News Staff Writer Yomi S. Wronge contributed to this report. Contact Karen de Sá at kdesa@mercurynews.com or (408) 295-3984.

 

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  Posted on Sat, Mar. 29, 2003 story:PUB_DESC  
S.J. teen among 5 killed, 9 injured in van crash
RELIGIOUS GROUP WAS HEADED TO MONASTERY NEAR BARSTOW

Mercury News

Five passengers, including a San Jose girl, were killed Saturday on the way to a religious retreat when their van went out of control and overturned on Interstate 15 near Barstow, the California Highway Patrol said.

Those who died at the scene were identified as Christine Youssef, 17, of San Jose, and Dalal Hannalla, Iman Hannalla and Simone Botors, who the CHP said were all from the Sacramento area.

Mary Demian, also from the Sacramento area, was transported to Arrowhead Regional Medical Center in Colton, where she later died of her injuries.

The other nine people traveling in the van were injured, three of them critically. The driver, Peter Demian, 27, of Mountain View, and a San Jose woman and Sunnyvale woman, were among those sustaining serious to moderate injuries. They were transported to area hospitals.

The white 2002 Ford Super Duty 15-passenger van was one of three vehicles in a convoy that left Friday night from St. Antonius Coptic Orthodox Church in Hayward carrying a group of youths from as many as six Egyptian Coptic churches in Northern California, said a member of the Hayward church who asked not to be named.

``It's pretty devastating,'' said the man, who had attended retreats in the past with many of the crash victims. The churches -- including St. George Coptic Church in Campbell and St. Mark's in Monterey -- often hold joint retreats where youths get to know each other.

``It's one family, basically, and we're all brothers and sisters. We know each other fairly well,'' he said. The group was headed to a St. Anthony Monastery in Yermo, outside of Barstow near the Nevada border, he said.

The crash occurred at 2:55 a.m., 11 miles north of Barstow and 20 minutes from the monastery, according to the CHP. The van was traveling around 70 mph when it began to drift toward another vehicle in an adjacent lane. It swerved as the driver tried to straighten it out and the vehicle left the road and into the center divider where it overturned, the CHP said.

Eleven of the 14 people in the van were not wearing seat belts and were ejected, said CHP Sgt. Daniel Laza, who responded to the crash. The victims were strewed over a distance of 170 feet from the center divider to the edge of the highway.

``It shows how important it is to wear seat belts. When someone is thrown out at 70 mph, it causes incredible trauma to the body,'' Laza said. ``There's no doubt that if everyone had been using their seat belts, the fatal and serious injuries would have been greatly reduced.''

Mary Demian's aunt, Samia Demian of Foster City, said her niece ``was an angel.''

Demian, 21, was an engineering student at the University of California-Davis, where she was active in an Egyptian Coptic Orthodox Church.

Peter Demian, who is not related to Mary, suffered a major head injury and was taken to Loma Linda University Medical Center.

Others taken to Arrowhead Regional Medical Center with critical injuries were identified as Victoria Brown, 20, of Redding; Nancy Salama, 25, of San Jose, and Lucy Saeed. The name of a 16-year-old female was not immediately available.

Four other passengers, including Ronya Botors, 20, of Sunnyvale, sustained moderate injuries and were also taken to the medical center.

Mercury News wire services contributed to this report. Contact Michael Cronk at mcronk@mercurynews.com or (408) 920-5063.
 

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"Fr.George Naeem" <frgeorgenaeem@attbi.com >
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CC :  "Alfred Barsoum" <ABarsoum@aol.com >
Subject :  My Children who attended the eternity recently
Date :  Mon, 31 Mar 2003 23:10:50 -0700

On the occasion of death of 5 of my  spiritual children in the Bay area and Sacramento

My Children who attended the eternity recently

We give thanks unto God for the life, the death, and the expected resurrection of those children.

"the night of his betrayal, on the eve of his own untimely death, Jesus said to his disciples: "Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me, that you also may be where I am. "

Compassionate and loving God, you who love us with an everlasting love and canst turn the shadow of death into the light of a new day, as we gather to commend those 5 children into your most gracious hands, help us to wait upon thee with penitent and believing hearts, trusting in your great promise to us through Jesus Christ our Lord - he who died that we might live, and who rose from the dead that we might never die. Lift us, we pray, into the joy and peace of thy presence - we ask it in Jesus' name and through the intercession of Saint Mary, the suffering mother.

INTRODUCTION

Today we do one of the most difficult of all things to do - we gather to mourn the passing of 5 young girls - daughters, sisters and friends- and to commend them into God's care.

Grief is never an easy burden to bear - and never more so when it comes to us in what we can only regard as an untimely fashion. It causes to arise within us many questions - questions about ourselves and what we might or might not have done to make things different - questions about the ones we loved and just what it was that they experienced during all their days - and questions about God and God's goodness.

We gather in such grief today - carrying a burden that not only seems to be, but in fact is, overwhelming. Jesus, our Lord and Savior, knew such grief when he walked among us, he understood and took upon himself our pain and our sorrow, our sin and our guilt, our fear and our anger, and - in the end he died our death. But then something special happened - something that he believed would happen, hoped would happen, trusted would happen. He rose to life again - a new and glorious life - a life which he said, before he died - that he would share with all who came to him. It was with such a faith in God and what God would accomplish through him, that he said to his disciples before his death and his resurrection:

"Come unto me, all you who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."

We come today, in our grief, in our pain, in our anger, in our doubt, in our confusion. We come to ask God to take our burden from us and give us in it's place the burden Christ spoke of. We come in the hope that the shadow of death might be turned into the light of a new day. We come to ask God to be merciful to us - and to the 5 girls- and grant us a new life. new life here - and the new life Jesus spoke of in the heavenly places above.

Today I want to share with you only one reading of scripture - and then I wish to share with you a tribute written by me and a poem I wrote - and reflect with you upon these things and upon the good news of our faith .

The Scripture is from the great and wise ancestor of Jesus we know as Solomon. He wrote in his Book of Wisdom these words:
 

"The souls of the righteous are in the hands of God, there no torment shall ever touch them. In the eyes of the foolish they seem to have died, and their departure was thought to be an affliction, and their going from us to be their destruction; but they are at peace. Having been disciplined a little, they will receive great good, because God tested them and found them worthy of himself. Their reward is with the Lord, the most High takes care of them.

For a year, some of them shared their life with me as a spiritual father, confidant, a dear close friend. We shared frustration at rough times, tears in desperation, and laughter in the best of times.

Anyone who knew them well, if asked, would describe them as kind, caring, considerate and generous young girls. Everything they attempted was nothing but perfection.  

However tragic and upsetting it is for us, this day the family, the friends, the classmates, must remember that they no longer trapped in a place that is away from the good and spiritual life.

With these words, I place them into the hands of God and leave you with a poem I have written a few years ago:

The poem which I will now read is called A LONE . Though not written specifically about them - I believe it speaks very clearly of the kind of pain that they knew all their days:

A LONE:
The silence,
so deafening
So alone,
in the grace of many.
A mortuary of the dead
entraps a body full of life
Embalmed with fear
I screamed out loud
Screams that never
reached another.
My tongue wrote scrolls of poetry
Locked inside my head
A single word
so hard to find
I found in silence
there is no peace.
The surgeon of solitude
has wired shut my jaw
In hopes to overload my brain
with thoughts of pain uncovered
In his attempt to make me strong
Loneliness had won the battle.
The pen and the paper were my sword
A way to defend my honor
A psychology of time and pain
That no one could uncover.
I see a man of the cloth
That has a vow to keep
We had never even passed a word
And yet he heard my pain,
If I was to learn from this
An experience from which to grow
I hope I took it to my grave
The answers for others to find.
I'm so tired of carrying this pain
The load has gotten heavy
It's time for me to pass alone
My existence is a shadow.
The epitaph upon my grave,
has more words than which I spoke
"For beauteous thoughts unspoken and
kept by man alone".
So deafening,
the silence
In the grace of millions,
so alone.
 

Alone, so alone - that words can never tell; fearful, so fearful - that words can never express. Sadness, so full - that the mind cannot comprehend.

We are family here today . the family of God; the family of the flesh which perishes and of the spirit which, by God's love, lives forever.

As family - we need to know that often in us, and often in others to a degree that is totally beyond us, there is a weakness that is beyond our control; a vulnerability, a pain, a despair, that is completely shielded from all that human kind can do.

For all of us it is true that sometimes we don't hear the voice of love - though its tender sound is all round us. Sometimes we don't realize the arms of love that enfold us - really are caring arms. Sometimes we don't grasp that the songs that are sung - are truly sung for us and that we - in our in strength and in our weakness, in our labor and in our rest, in our goodness and in our evil, are accepted, and valued, and treasured, and welcomed and loved for who we are, just as we are - without condition or qualification or merit or any other measure of judgment.

For others of us - what is true sometimes - is true almost all the time and it is more than a soul can bear.

Today we bear witness together to the truth of this -  fine 5 young girls are no longer with us in the flesh; young girls  who were reasonably free from the vices of our ages -- - free from selfishness and greed - free from self promotion and ever present ego - free from the plague of uncaring - unhelpfulness - and unloving that curses our society -- has succumbed to the loneliness within that most of us only know a little of.

There are so many who can testify, so many who can say in truth - that they did the best they could - that they cared the best they could - for others - and - even in their last pain - .

Today I ask you to hear the voice of love - to know and believe that they are truly free now and in a better place than they found here among us.

I ask you to hear in the silence of our hearts the words of Solomon: that the righteous are in the hands of God where no torment shall ever touch them; that their reward is with the Lord, the most High takes care of them,

I ask you to hear and perchance to feel - his words in our minds and their arms  upon our shoulders, their words saying: "we don't hurt anymore. It's alright. we are happy. Don't cry. Be glad for us"

I ask you to hear and to know the voice of love that speaks to us in our need and says:
"Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me, that you also may be where I am".

I WOULD LIKE TO SHARE A POEM WITH YOU AT THIS TIME - they are words that I believe every one of them would say now that she has discovered her voice and found for herself the truth concerning how much she is loved by God - and by you here today. It is called "Do Not Stand"

Do not stand at my grave and weep;

I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there. I do not die.

 As Christians, it is our conviction that our loved ones move on into the nearer presence of God, where they shall hunger no more, either thirst any more; the sun shall not strike them, nor any scorching heat. For the Lamb in the midst of the throne will be their shepherd, and he will guide them to springs of living water; and God himself will wipe away every tear from their eyes.

Having this faith, we now commend into God's keeping our daughters- here departed. We commit their body to the ground: earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust, trusting in God's great mercy by which we have been born a new to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.

Thanks be to God who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. AMEN

Go in peace, look to and care for one another - forgive anything that needs forgiving - share all that needs sharing - and may the God of peace, who brought again from the dead our Lord Jesus Christ, by the blood of the everlasting covenant, equip you with everything good that you may do his will and bring praise and honor and glory to his name - both now and evermore. Amen.

 
 Gracious God, in your love you have fathomed the depth of human suffering in the cross of Jesus Christ, and in all our afflictions you are afflicted. To your steadfast love and care we commend those daughters, who were overcome by the chaos of the world without and the agony of soul within. Where wrong has been done by anyone, where responsibility has been evaded, and where the ties of affection have been broken, we pray that you in your mercy will judge and in your love forgive - even as you have promised through Jesus - who died that we might live and who lives that we might never die.

Eternal Father - in the midst of our pain and grief we thank you for the good that you granted us to see and experience in and through those 5 girls. We remember the joy that they brought us - the love that they showed - the kindness that they shared as they reached out to help others and we thank you for it. We recall them before you as dear and precious daughters - caring sisters - quiet and trustworthy friends. Bless, we pray, and use our memories of them as instruments of your healing grace and set fast in our minds and our hearts the good news of our faith - the news that through Christ death has no dominion - the news that all that is right - all that is beautiful - all that is noble - all that is fine - is not lost to us, but rather brought to full flower in your eternal presence where no torment can ever touch it, where you yourself wipe away every tear from our eyes.

Gracious God - we thank you for your steadfast and life-giving love. Comfort we pray, your servants to whom this trial has come. Be with their families, the congregations of the churches , the ministers and friends.. be their stay, their strength and their shield. Grant that they might be touched by the consolation of  your Holy Spirit and hear your voice. Lighten their darkness and bring them out of all their distress. Indeed, O God, touch all our hearts with your love in this hour, that the springs of compassion may flow. Grant us grace to help and comfort those who find themselves desolate and lead us with them in the paths of quietness and hope through Christ Jesus our Lord .

O God, whose days are without end, and whose mercies cannot be numbered: make us deeply sensitive to the shortness and uncertainty of human life, and let your Holy Spirit lead us through this present world in holiness and righteousness all the days of our life, so that when we have served you in our day and generation, we may be received by  our heavenly Father, having the testimony of a good conscience, in the communion of your church, in the confidence of a certain faith, in the comfort of a holy hope, in favor with you our God, and in perfect charity with all mankind. We ask it through Jesus Christ Our Lord and through the intercession of Saint Mary, the suffering mother.

"I will lift up my eyes unto the hills; - from whence cometh my help? My help comes from the Lord, which made heaven and earth. He will not suffer thy foot to be moved, he that keeps thee will not slumber. Behold, he that keeps Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep. The Lord is thy keeper; the Lord is thy shade upon thy right hand. The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night. The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil, he shall preserve thy soul. The Lord shall preserve thy going out, and thy coming in, from this forth and even for evermore. "
Fr. George Naeem
8998 S.Copeland Street
Highlands Ranch, CO 80126
Phone: 720-344-1697
Fax : 775-458-3252
e-mail :
frgeorgenaeem@attbi.com


 


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From : 
"sameh mikhail" <sameh_mikhail@hotmail.com >
To :  <withgodweare@hotmail.com>
Date :  Sun, 6 Apr 2003 17:05:53 +1000

 We feel great sorrow for the loss of the lives of these 5 roses. They are at the moment in paradise with our Lord Jesus ,praying for us. We send our sympathy to the families of these beloved lives, in particular Mr Maher and Mrs hanan Youssef for the loss of our beloved daughter Christine. May God fill your hearts with everlasting peace and calm your shocked souls.  

Dr.Sameh Ramzi and the family.
Melbourne,Australia.

 

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From : 
"mary gerges" <marygerges2003@hotmail.com>
To :  <withgodweare@hotmail.com>
Subject :  الأبرار يضيئون كالشمس فى ملكوت السموات
Date :  Tue, 1 Apr 2003 17:05:04 +0200

الى اخوتى فى المسيح

لأنه فيما هو جرب يقدر ان يعين المجربين

الرب يعزيكم ويقدم لكم التعزيات السمائيه

 الرب يسندكم

اختكم فى المسيح

مارى جرجس

 

Tadrous

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From : 
Phar00@aol.com
To :  withgodweare@hotmail.com
CC :  Phar00@aol.com
Subject :  rabena ma3akom
Date :  Tue, 1 Apr 2003 01:54:17 EST
I know words at these times are hardly heard, families go through pain that only they know the feeling of, but I have lost a lot of dear friends in this accident, I ask God, Why?Why? and lots of times the answer isn't as clear as we would like it to be, but what's clear is that his Love and Mercy are with us at all times, through the good and the bad, trust in him like you always have, my friend Iman (BintRabina) would have been the first one to talk about his love to everyone and now that she is in his hands like she mentioned in her profile, we should remember how much she has shown us Christ, his love, his care for everyone, his wonderful and peacful words through her, Iman please remember us before the Glory of God that he may accept us in his kingdom, I will miss you my twin, I will never forget you, and you wonderful memorries will never be forgotten.  May God bless and bring peace to all the families that have lost a loved one, only through Christ can there be rest for the ones in heaven and us the strangers on earth.


Love always, Your Twin

Michael Tadrous
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From : 
"at" <afss2003@hotmail.com>
To :  <withgodweare@hotmail.com>
Subject :  اللة ينيح نفوس هؤلاء الضحايا
Date :  Sun, 30 Mar 2003 14:55:47 -0500
 

نرسل تعازينا الى اهل الضحايا إله السماء  ينيح نفوسهم
 فى فردوس النعيم ويعطى عزاء  وصبرا لأسر الضحايا

توفيق
 

 


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From : 
Egptismine@aol.com
To :  amcoptic@hotmail.com
Subject :  TJS - Mail
Date :  Tue, 1 Apr 2003 01:27:58 EST
I want to re-main nameless just for the sake of everyone. I attend the Coptic Orthodox Church in Hayward and all I can say is that it is very hard on us all b/c we were one big, happy family. Loosing 5 of your sisters all at once is very difficult, but we need to understand that they are in a better place now. I'm lost for words, but they are all together in a better place and will never be forgotten.
We love you Christine, Dalal, Iman, Mary, and Simone.
                                                       thank you

 

 

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